Many people think that the main erogenous zone of boys' bodies is the phallus, forgetting about such a secluded place as the G-spot in men. It is a powerful intimate weapon that is actively involved in any love affair. In a fit of passion, few people remember this point, but its stimulation will allow the partner to achieve a strong orgasm and shorten the recovery time for further carnal pleasures.
How to find the D-spot in a person
Curiosity is caused by the fact that many young people themselves do not know where men have a G-spot of excitement, and some are even completely ignorant of its existence.
The desire for sexual gratification pushes boys to unravel the secrets of their own bodies alone (or with their loved one). At the same time, they definitely like not only the result, but also the process of finding the cherished point.
Although the male genitalia is outside, the location of the male G-spot is quite curious - it is hidden in the depth of the pelvis between the pubic bones and the rectum, where it is firmly fixed by the ligaments. This area is the link between a young person's reproductive and urinary systems.
The G-spot is penetrated by veins and arteries closely connected to the vessels that are located directly on the male genital organ. In its shape it resembles a chestnut or walnut. This area grows up to 20 years, weighs 20 g and occupies an area of not more than 4 square meters. see It is difficult to find because it is located in the upper part of the urethra below the bladder. This can happen through the anus, penetrating to a depth of 5-7 cm. Feeling a small bulge on the front wall of the abdomen, you can be sure that the search was crowned with success.
Precisely because of the privacy of the place where the G-spot is in men, boys doubt whether it is worth studying it at all. There is a strong stereotype in their heads that only connoisseurs of same-sex love give access to the anus. In addition, many men are reluctant to agree to such an experiment because they are afraid of getting unpleasant sensations or simply do not want to discuss it with their partner.
Methods to stimulate the male point
Finding the desired place on the body of the lover is not enough. It is also important to master proper G-spot stimulation in men.
There are two ways:
- External.To do this, gently press or push the erogenous zone between the scrotum and anus. Manipulations are best done with the thumb and forefinger after wiping the pressure area lightly. When a man is aroused, the sensitivity of the G-spot increases, so if you press hard, it is possible to prevent ejaculation. You need to move carefully and smoothly. In addition, you should carefully monitor your partner's reactions. If it becomes noticeable that the process does not give him pleasure, then it is better to stop the procedure immediately.
- Internal.This method will give the man unforgettable and vivid emotions, but many young people do not agree with it, believing that the girl will accept it as a manifestation of a tendency to unusual love. The essence of the method lies in the fact that the woman carefully inserts her finger into the anus of her partner, then carefully looks for a small bulge and continues to stimulate it. In this case, sharp and strong movements should be avoided. Every action should be soft and smooth. To avoid possible injuries and damage, the hands are lubricated with a special grease. It is more convenient for the girl to perform internal stimulation while in a riding position. In this position, her hands remain free, which allows you to freely massage the melancholy G. The amplitude of the pressure should not exceed one movement per second. Thanks to this person, a bright and unforgettable peak of pleasure is provided.
Preparation for stimulation
If the partners have decided to try the secrets of stimulating the covenant point in men, then to get the most vivid sensations that need to be properly prepared for the process:
- First you have to prepare the person himself. Ideally, he should cleanse his rectum with an enema or laxative. This will give the intimate massage a more attractive look.
- Before finding the G-spot in a man, partners must gain full trust, otherwise the young man will not be able to relax, so the stimulation will not bring any pleasure. On the contrary, it is very likely that the girl's movements only create unpleasant and painful sensations.
- The girl must prepare her hands: remove long manicures, make sure they are gentle and soft, otherwise you can accidentally injure the inner lining, which will lead to the development of inflammatory processes in the body.
- Observance of hygiene rules is mandatory. Wash your hands thoroughly or wear disposable medical gloves. It also does not hurt to use a special lubricant. After stimulation, it is impossible to touch the male or female genitals, as microorganisms remain on the skin, which can provoke the development of the inflammatory process.
- It won't hurt to give your partner an erotic massage, starting with the head and ending with the buttocks. This will allow the person to relax and get the most out of the process of exploring his body.
- The man should choose the most comfortable position for him. The best position for this is lying down and the girl between his legs.
- Movements should be weak but rhythmic. You should continue them until the man feels the brightest orgasm. It is important to monitor your partner's reaction.
- You need to start looking for the location of the male G-spot just before orgasm. Otherwise, the lady risks killing the sexual mood and discouraging the desire to continue doing so.
How to massage the G-spot
Proper stimulation is light rhythmic pressure, back and forth movement or gentle circular manipulation. But don't turn it into a jammed button. The process should be pleasant and not make the man turn on the bed in pain.
G-spot massage in men can reduce the duration of the refractory phase. After that, the traditional time to restore an erection is reduced from 40-60 minutes to an almost instantaneous appearance.
A person's magical multi-orgasm is guaranteed, but it's worth remembering a few important rules so that stimulation doesn't backfire.
No nails
Long nails don't only hurt your partner in adult movies. In fact, such a weapon can deliver a lot of unpleasant and even painful sensations, as penetrating the anus with a sharpened calendula can hurt the mucous membrane and it will not look pleasant to anyone. The nails should be cut at the root.
Lubrication
Lubricant is a special lubricant, usually water-based. When you stimulate the male G-spot, there must be a lot of it. Specialized lubrication with anesthesia is best. Used specifically for anal sex.
The substance reduces the unpleasant sensations characteristic of such caresses. But it is worth remembering that the painkiller starts working only 10-15 minutes after applying the lubricant, so there is no need to hurry.
Cog
In order to cause less discomfort to the partner during the insertion of the finger into the anus, it should not simply be inserted, but carefully and slowly screwed. This movement gently spreads the folds of skin that form the anus and can help reduce discomfort. This word is worth remembering to maximize the pleasure of stimulation.
Remember the toys
For men, the D-spot is an area that can be stimulated to achieve amazing results. If you convince a man to put a special sex toy in his anus, the effect will be amazing. For starters, you can use anal beads. They must be inside during the whole intimacy. After orgasm, they should be removed one by one, but not deviate from the rhythm of the boy's movements. It will bring him fantastic pleasure.
And the most important thing is hygiene
Hands should be washed well before and after the procedure to avoid infection with infectious diseases. In addition, it should be remembered that when the lady's finger explores the most secret places of the male body, it is better to keep it away from the genitals due to the very aggressive attitude of the intestinal microflora to the human genitalia.
Some sexologists associate the main male erogenous zone with the female, because its proper stimulation leads to unforgettable pleasure. Although it is easier to find the D point in young people than in girls, the problem lies in its very secluded location. But if the young lady manages to convince her partner of such a bold experiment, then the title of great mistress is guaranteed.